So we got the basic "what are you doing this weekend" question a ton as most people do on Friday afternoon/evening. To which I responded with a firm "absolutely nothin" answer and secretly loving the way it sounded. Tim was in town and wasn't working so we actually had one whole unplanned weekend ahead. A weekend where we got to wake up and see what we felt like doing and just go...
But today, Saturday, the day with nothing and no plans turned out to mean everything! It is these days when I have the chance to sit back and watch my family even though they don't know I am watching all the time. Half the time I smile, the other half I fight back tears but all in all I feel complete and utter joy and thanks. Watching Tim cuddle and play with the girls on the couch, read them any and every book they bring to him, make homemade waffles and as always the best coffee anyone in this house can manage (maybe it just tastes so darn good because someone else is making it?). I see Kennedy protectively holding onto Carter as he climbs up into her kids chair trying to squeeze his way right on next to her. I see Brooklyn getting right up in Carter's face as he is finding his favorite and very special place in the whole house (her bed) and kissing him and telling him he loves her. These are the days that happen when you had nothing planned. These are the days that start as nothing and end with everything. These are the days I want to hold onto forever!
After breakfast we jumped on our bikes and headed off for a bike ride, park stop and ended back at the house with an all out chalk fest on our driveway. You should see the graffiti, it's impressive and I have to admit that Tim's artistry takes the prize this weekend. Even Carter is getting in on the action and loving the chalk as well as every square inch of his sweet little skin. Lots of hang out time on the rug, playing, reading, and games, naps, cuddles, lunch at a new deli picnic style with snow cones following and all nothing days aren't complete without pool time. I am having a blast watching as Brooklyn has turned into a little fish. It happened all so fast in the last week that I barely caught it on tape or by camera. She is a full on swimming, diving, jumping, back stroking, flipping fool and it is adorable. Her in her little goggles are just the cutest little thing. That along with Carter trying to put on the bright neon orange goggles tonight and getting them all wrapped around his little face.
And ya know what, I hardly got any pictures today...none because I was enjoying watching, just being in the day. This I more wanted to write down for me, memories of what kind of days really matter and are important in life! Because often in the craziness and to dos of an ordinary day I get caught up in the tasks and the getting it all done that this is heavenly and I breathe deeper and bigger on days like these and I love every minute of it!
So here's to more nothing kinda days in the future!
Oh wait, I did manage one picture today, a classic one involving the guys, golf, the couch, and a smoothie!